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Thank you for all of your work on putting this event together, Doug and John! We were unable to attend the 50th reunion last year, so this will be a fun "second chance." to reconnect. -Ken

05/01/22 01:43 PM

#122

May 1, 2022 (Paul Turner's Birthday)

Greetings Crossland Cavaliers, It's raining here in Middletown so I can't finish my mulching and garden clean up today. I'm sitting at the PC and making some notes about the up comming Flip Flop's and Wine party September 14-16, 2022 at the Herrington Bay Resort and Marina in North Beach Md. Everyone is still invited and encouraged to show up. The venue's are locked in. Party Pavillion on the channel and Marina 9/14 5:30-9:30. It will be fabulous dessert buffet and soft drinks and water. B.Y.O.B. for other libations. Share if you want. An optional and recommended sunset cruise on a charter boat will be boarding at approx 6:15 PM (30 ' from the pavillion) cruising the Chesapeake Bay and docking approx 8:15 PM. so we can have more time at the party pavillion together. Thursday Morning a golf outing is still in the making at Chesapeake Golf club. For those who don't swing clubs at little balls, there are many other optional activities at the resort and close by. Thursday evening 5:30 PM Skipper's Restaurant and Bar in nearby Deale, Md will be expecting us on their beautiful outside deck,on the water, for a Happy Hour ( appitizers are being planned) and dinner 6:30-8:30 PM (order your own off the menu). The list of classmates attending is growing, and it's exciting. Please contact me as soon as possible, so I can keep an accurate ( or as close as possible) headcount for planning purposes.

Enjoy, stay well and safe, and looking forward to hearing from you soon.

Doug Silvern

c 240-772-0732 e mail: douglas.silvern@sheppardpratt.org

05/08/22 03:46 PM

#123

May 8, 2022

Hello Classmates and Friends, Happy Mothers day to all! We have so many classmates with wonderful and growing families. I hope you all are well and celebrate a great day.

Also congratulations to University of Maryland and Terp Nation: MD Mens Lacrosse Team is the Big 10 Lacrosse Tournement Champions (2 yrs in a row). Defeating rival Rutgers, Scarlot Knights in horrendous weather at Capital One field. MD will now be #1 Seed in the Upcoming NCAA Lacrosse Tournament.

I believe the Womens Lacrosse Team is scheduled to play in the Womens Big 10 Lacrosse Championship game today in New Jersey, Their opponent will also be Rutgers. Good Luck lady Terps.

Well Finally, the other Good News is that the major details for CLASS of '71 Flip Flops and Wine Class Act 2022 event is posted. Please see the Agenda and registration form on this site under 2022 Reunion info. . Thank you to all those who have participated in assisting with this planning. i could not do it alone. Thank you to all those who have contacted me with intenstions to participate, believe me, it motivated me to keep going. Great to hear from all of you. It's not too late to jump on board. Please fill out the registration form and send to me by June 15, 2022. Any questions or comments please feel free to contact me at 240-772-0732 or douglas.silvern@sheppardpratt.org. So i can add you to list of participants. There are new folks coming that did not make it to 50th reunion and have not heard from for decades. I am so excited and grateful to see all of You. We are a Class Act!!!

All my best and warm wishes

Doug

05/22/22 11:51 AM

#124

May 22, 2022

Greetings Classmates, Spouces and Friends,

The month of May is scurrying by. It's full of special events and we are approaching the busy Summer months. I hope everyone is doing as well as possible. The golf courses in the Mid Atlantic are busy and flourishing with deep green folage and grasses, as the rain has been abundant.

I want to remind everyone the plans for the Flip Flops and Wine class event are intact. My hope is to spend a few very casual and fun filled days with as many of you as possible. I have been receiving registration forms. If you have contacted me please, before time gets away, take a few minutes to complete the registration and send in with the remittance for the events you plan to attend. I would like to have the forms and your intent by June 15th. It's not too late to encourage some classmates in your circle to attend. Any questions, situations or concerns I can answer, please feel free to contact me. Stay well, and have a safe, healthy and joyful begining to Summer.

Doug Silvern

240-772-0732

douglas.silvern@sheppardpratt.org

07/02/22 02:05 PM

#125

July 2, 2022

Dear Classmates, friends, acquaintances, I received information early this morning that our Dear friend, Michael Parvis’ wife of many years, Billie has passed after a long illness on 7/1/2022. I know many of you know Michael much better than I. I was blessed when he reached out to me several years ago to reunite with many of our classmates, at the golf fundraisers he had been putting together for years to support our Crossland families. I know he has done much to keep many of us together, and is well respected and loved by those who know him. I thank his good friends Tony Gramsky and Cathy Waltersdorff for reaching out. I want to thank Lana "Pat" Fink for helping me with this post. Michael is blessed in having many family, church members and close friends support during these sad times. More info will be posted as it becomes available.

GOD Bless all of you

Doug

07/28/22 07:50 AM

#126

David Simmons

Another of our Class of 1971 has died. Carlton "Pete" Kennedy passed away on Saturday, July 23. Some of us also knew him by his other nickname - "Jump". He was diagnosed earlier this year with melonoma. At this time funeral arrangements have not been finalized. If anyone would like more information you can contact me at 240-808-3249. God Bless Pete and may light perpetual shine upon him.

08/22/22 07:38 PM

#127

Hello Classmates, Spouses, Partners and Friends,

We are a little over 3 weeks away from our special Flip Flops and Wine event at North Beach, MD. As I mentioned in previous posts, I knew the Summer would pass quickly, and I hope everyone stayed safe and well. I am super excited about the attendance of those registed for the event. Hope you all are finalizing plans and getting ready for the bash.

It's been great catching up with many of you by phone, texts and email. This is my last appeal to anyone who has been on the fence, and has not contacted me. You have until end of day 8/31, then I have to officially close the books, and start ordering for the venues. For those that have registered, I have sent replies to everyone that has sent in their forms. If there is anything I can do to make your visit with us more comfortable or any accomodation you may need, please let me know.

My contact info has changed so if you did not get that info here it is again:

cell: 301 639 4220

email: dstanman92@gmail.com

See y'all soon

Doug

08/23/22 11:47 AM

#128

Thanks for putting this event together, Doug!

09/02/22 12:44 PM

#129

Hello Cavaliers et al, Jumping on here to Wish everyone a safe and happy Labor Day weekend. Teresa and I are birthday buddy's today. Everything looks to be in place for our exciting Flip Flops and Wine get together.

9/14-9/16.

The pavilion at the Herrington Bay resort , North Beach MD should be decorated and ready for our party by 5:30 PM. (Volunteers encouraged and welcomed to assist earlier)

Remember to BYOB for wine and beer or other adult beverages of choice. We will have several large coolers there.

There will be plenty of dessert , soft drinks and water, Feel free to bring dinner for yourselves if you want to eat at the pavilion or on premises , there are gas grills available. . There is a cafe and a restaurant on premises , if you want to get there early. The beach will be open , but not the swimming pool. There are changing areas and showers available.

The ship for our cruise, if participating, should be ready for boarding by 6:15 PM. ( approx cost $40 p.p. a little more for a tip for Capt Shawn would be nice) The cruise should last approx 2 hours, there will be dessert and beverages on the cruise as well. The pavilion will be available for us until 11 PM, for those that can hang. (take a nap).

Chesapeake Hills Golf Couse in Lusby Md will be ready for us by 10 AM to tee off maybe a little earlier depending on their early league participants. Get there a little earlier to stretch and warm up. They have a good Sr. Rate.

Thursday evening, Skippers Restaurant in Deale, Md is preparing a delicious " happy hour" for us ( cash bar) starting at 5:30 PM on their picturesque dock. They will also be prepared to seat us for dinner after happy hour. A special sheet cake commemorating this 51st year get together is provided for dessert, so save room..

If around on Friday morning we can go for breakfast in Chesapeake beach , just a few minutes away. There is a restaurant, I believe serves breakfast until 1 pm.

Any last minute questions please call or text Doug @ 301-639-4220 email: dstanman92@gmail.com

Stay well and safe, see you all in a couple short weeks.

Doug

09/03/22 12:33 PM

#130

Happy Birthday Doug and Teresa!

We be getting all our "Stuff" together for the road trip north! Can't wait to see all you guys.

They scrubbed the darn launch again. Sombody get in there with some Hubba-Bubble and get that leak fixed!

Dave and Lori

09/03/22 04:38 PM

#131

Happy birthday, Teresa and Doug. Looking forward to the 51st anniversary events.

09/07/22 04:49 PM

#132

We are a week out and there is plenty to do. Sorry I have not kept the list of attendees updated. Let me just say, there are more classmates coming and excited to catch up. Please plan to hang out as long as you can on Wednesday, you never know who may show up.

The folks that came to the 50th reunion, many of you received a lanyard with your yearbook picture and name printed on reverse side. If you are attending Flip Flops and Wine please bring your lanyard if you can locate them. There were some extra lanyards from last year, so folks that didn't get one can claim one. Bring your yearbook pic, I'll bring a label maker .

Mayor, John Flynn of North Beach (livin the dream) mentioned that for those hanging out at the resort there is an excercise room near the pool area that should be available. John also mentioned that there are tennis and pickle ball courts available. Equipment can be checked out at the front desk. It sounded like John put out a challenge.The property and beach area is unique. There is plenty to do in Calvert County.

Remenber the Sunset boat cruise will be boarding at 6:15 PM. Wednesday

Golfers please show up at Chesapeake Hills in Lusby Md by 9:30 am Thursday morning to check in, get your cart. Those at or near resort can carpool.

Happy Hour at Skipper's starts at 5:30 PM

If you want to share any special memories perhaps you can think of:

Your most embarrassing moment at CHS or beyond
Funniest story you can remember
Subject or class you remember and why
An activity you would like to share a story about; Homecomming, a dance, concert, play, field trip, athletic event .
Any Re-occuring nightmares from CHS yrs or after? (the guys in dark suits chasing you, the class you registered to take, but forgot to attend, the final class assignment you forgot to complete)
What is the oddest thing you remember and can't figure out why.

See you at Herrington Harbor and /or Skippers Pier

Any last minute issues or needs please let me know.

Doug

301-639-4220

09/11/22 11:37 AM

#133

It has just come to my attention that former DC Star Guitarist Jeff Avery has passed. I hope to get more details later today and will post them when I do.

Dave

09/16/22 05:09 PM

#134

Made it to Covington Va after the great breakfast this morning and the rest of the events at this year's reunion.

A great time was had by all!

Grover enjoyed himself immensely!
Hope to see you all again next year. Great work Doug, Wendy and John!

Dave and Lori

09/16/22 07:43 PM

#135

Sharon Cleaveland (Johnsen)

Crossland Cavaliers, friends and family of,

We wrapped up another great annual event on the shores of the Chesapeake. I want to personally thank everyone of you that made this event absolutely wonderful through your participation. As a class many of us cultivate closer bonds of friendship, more so than what we may have had 51 years ago. You keep showing the true meaning of being exceptionally caring towards each other. I am overwhelmed and more impressed each year by your outpouring of kindness and the investment of time and resources to come together.

We know some of you that wanted to be with us had circumstances which prevented that. We know your hearts and thoughts were with us, and we wish you all the best, and that you will join us at the next opportunity. The good news is that our spirit of comradery motivates us to continue these events. Stay tuned, for you never know what the next plan will be.

As usual we will post photographs of the celebration. If you attended and can send your photo's to share please send them to Mike Parvis or me, so we can get them on the "Home of the Cavaliers" as quickly as possible for all to enjoy.

. Please reach out. So many of us live within close proximity and have time that we should not wait for major planned events. I'll travel for breakfast, lunch, coffee, dinner, golf, any casual event. I'm sure others will too.

Continued blessings to all of you this year and in the future. Hope to hear from you soon.

Sincerely,

Doug

dstanman92@gmail.com

301-639-4220

09/17/22 08:58 AM

#136

Jan Eggers (Stephanson)

Thank You Doug Silvern and all who worked with him to sponsor the 51st reunion! A great time was had by all!

With the perfect weather- we couldn't have asked for better! The venue was great! Here's to another gathering very soon (next year!!) and I hope that many more cavaliers can join us ! A heatfelt THANKS for sponsoring the event Doug and all! It was great to reconnect with fellow cavaliers!

09/17/22 10:29 AM

#137

Gary Pashkevich

Doug, thanks to you John and Wendy for all your planning and hard work! Carol and I had a wonderful time, thanks again Gary P.

09/17/22 04:13 PM

#138

Rod Smart

Ditto...Ditto...Ditto...Ditto.

09/17/22 05:37 PM

#139

We had a terrific time talking, reminiscing, and reconnecting. Such a wonderful time seeing friends from years ago. The food was yummy and the scenery on the water was terrific. Thankful for those who were able to come and hope to see more next year. Thanks to Doug and helpers who made it all possible!!!!

Sharon Cleaveland Johnsen

09/19/22 04:30 PM

#140

Sandra Kennedy (Shaffner)

Thanks to Doug, John, Wendy, and all the attendees who helped make our 51st reunion such an enjoyable event. The venues, boat ride, weather, and food were superb.

09/21/22 01:02 PM

#141

Linda Mott-Smith

Sorry I couldn't make it this year with events at the facility I manage. Would love to host an event for us on Martha's Vineyard!

09/23/22 01:51 PM

#142

Pamela Brown (Day)

I's like to add my thaks to Doug, John, Wendy, and pat Hankins and all those who put this shindig together. It waas a lotof fun--wish I could have been in two places at once. Sorry to have missed the dinner. The boat ride was really nice.

Some have asked about my art (shamelss self-promotion). I am in Printmakers Inc., Studion#14 at the Torpedo Factory in Alexandria, VA: https://www.tfpi.org/artists.html (at the bottom of the pageis the artist scchedule). I am usually there on Mondays.

Pam (Brown) Day, aka. Big Pam Brown

09/25/22 03:50 PM

#143

I missed the 51st Reunion, even tho I had planned to attend.

Doug told me that classmates would like to get together more often. So, I propose that we meet at the restaurant in Clinton, called Mama Stellas on Saturday, November 5, at noon. It is a great Italian Restaurant.

So, let me know what you think. I will call the restaurant and find out how much notice we need to give them for a big crowd.

Sandy Shaffner

09/27/22 03:51 PM

#144

Linda Mott-Smith

I could fly in for a weekend after wedding season😀

10/01/22 08:41 PM

#145